
Jesus said to the chief priests and elders of the people:
"What is your opinion?
A man had two sons.
He came to the first and said,
'Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.'
He said in reply, 'I will not, '
but afterwards changed his mind and went.
The man came to the other son and gave the same order.
He said in reply, 'Yes, sir,' but did not go.
Which of the two did his father's will?"
(Matthew 21:28-31a)
"What is your opinion?
A man had two sons.
He came to the first and said,
'Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.'
He said in reply, 'I will not, '
but afterwards changed his mind and went.
The man came to the other son and gave the same order.
He said in reply, 'Yes, sir,' but did not go.
Which of the two did his father's will?"
(Matthew 21:28-31a)
Which type of person are you? I know where I fit into today's Gospel! My initial response to anyone asking me to do something is usually "No". I can always think of a dozen reasons why I don't want to take on another project or commit to another activity. I don't have time and I don't want to be bothered. My life is already too busy. To be honest, these excuses often mask the fact that I either feel inadequate to the suggested task or I'm too lazy to stretch and grow in the ways necessary to complete the work.
But, many times I find myself going back to the request and changing my answer. This might be after a good night's sleep, a lunch out with friends - something to give me new energy and confidence. It might be after some prayer and reflection. I might even lay a guilt trip on myself, asking if I don't do the requested work who will?
It sure is easy for me to identify with the son who, when asked by his father to go out and work in the vineyard, gave a negative reply but later repented and did as he was bid. When I choose to accept the work God asks of me my life seems to fall into place.
We all meet both types of people. How much easier it is to say "Yes" right away when you are asked to do something. It pleases the person doing the asking. It makes you look and feel good. But afterwards you are faced with the reality of following through on the promise. How many times this is difficult, and we slide away from the commitment.
All of these readings speak to the issue of response to God's commands. The Old Testament reading talks about turning from wickedness to doing what is right and just. The Psalm asks God to teach us right ways and have compassion on us when we make wrong choices. (If you come to the 11:30 Mass on Sunday you will hear the adult choir sing a beautiful anthem setting of this Psalm.) And the New Testament reading from St. Paul's letter to the Philippians contains the beautiful passage telling us that Jesus said "Yes" when asked by his father to go out in the vineyard to work AND he followed through on that promise. To me that is the ultimate goal - to say "Yes" when God asks us to do His work, and then to go out and do it!
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